How can i help a child who is extremely behind in school?

After the separation we decided to split the kids,
So my ex husband got custody of one child,
He went back to his country and i just found out the child did not attend school for the last 3 years! 😤
After much struggled he will bring my child home next week but I feel so bad because my son is 13
How can he attend school, I'm so worried he is 3 years behind. Im upset with my ex husband but right now my concern is my child and helping him feel confident but three years behind, i had some sleepless nights over this. How can i help, any teachers out there

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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

I am going to venture to guess that your stories are fictional.

Who "splits" the kids as if they are property? You didn't speak to your son for 3 years and he never told you he was not going to school?

Your other story claims that you met a man online and need advice on whether or not it is creepy if this man wants you to call him daddy and wants to adopt your kid and have them call him daddy too?

I'll take things that never happened for $500, Alex.

Misslovejoy · 31-35, F

@JaggedLittlePill You are being judgmental???

I have so many responses and all are genuine, apart from yours!
What would i gain from lying?
I am asking for suggestions on how to help my child! That's the parenting arrangement that we came up with, I could not afford to keep both children at that point.

I am guessing your using my post to be negative, and Yes, that happened to the man i met online , not that i have to explain myself to. And it was a shock for me because he seemed like a good person at first. Keep your judgments to yourself!