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BumbleofJoy
*he says as he remembers him/her* Just kidding. Glad you've moved on ;)
AgniousPrime · 31-35, M
The only time I still think of her is when I realize that I haven't thought of her at all. From consuming my thoughts 24x7 to this. All the feelings just died and became meaningless. Just like that. So how do you trust your feelings anymore? How can you know if it's truly love or what if it vaporized like that?
BumbleofJoy
It depends on how the relationship ended and if she changed or was unkind to you in the end.
AgniousPrime · 31-35, M
No one was unkind. It was blissful but then she said that the distance was too much and that was that. Over a week I went from "I love her" to "Nope, don't care"
BumbleofJoy
I think that can be a good thing. Maybe you just understand where she came from, accepted that it wasn't what she wanted, and carried on in your life. How long were you together? I find that if something like that happens within the first few months of a relationship, it's easier to just be like "eh" shortly after.