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Fling while married that got me pregnant

I married my boyfriend from school, as far as everyone has ever seen we've been perfect for each other but one weekend when my husband was away for work I went out with some people from work and made a series of drunken and out of character decisions and ended up having sex with a friend from work.

My husband showed incredible strength and maturity and forgave me, something I'm endlessly grateful for, but everything is so very different now. No one sees it because we put up a front, we still look like that perfect, high school sweetheart couple but now there is a third wheel.

My friend from work wanted to support his child and be involved as far as I would let him, something I couldn't help but respect, and we now coparent.

I was wondering if anyone else has found themselves in this sort of situation so thought I'd reach out on here. Happy to chat to anyone, hope to hear from you soon :)
Beardedguy · 31-35, M
Tought situation but you have owned mistake :) its good the other guy wants to support the baby and not just bail and run away
Beardedguy · 31-35, M
@xAbbiex it was :) hope it all works out
xAbbiex · 26-30, F
@Beardedguy thank you ♥️ things are working well at the moment. Can just feel a bit isolating being in such a strange situation that I can't talk about with many people.
Beardedguy · 31-35, M
@xAbbiex yeah i bet it can be. But there will be someone that will listen :)
DHggmu · 31-35, M
I found myself in a “similar” situation at one point. But I’d rather not post it for everyone to see, it’s very personal as you know.
xAbbiex · 26-30, F
@DHggmu would you be open to chatting in private?
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@xAbbiex Sure.
IamBack · 31-35, M
If this story is true then I’d honestly say that you don’t deserve such a man, your husband that is!

I hope you’re able to sort it out soon!
IamBack · 31-35, M
@xAbbiex well sorry if I sounded a bit judgmental at first, I’m happy to have a conversation now that I understand the situation a bit better
xAbbiex · 26-30, F
@IamBack it's ok. What you said isn't wrong, I fully agree and I judge myself for what I've done as well.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@xAbbiex it’s okay, at least you own what you did and being apologetic, that makes a huge difference
courtney0380 · 36-40, F
It happens more than you think
Tonydang · M
I know you said your husband forgave you but there will always be that resentment and trust issue between you guys and things will probably never be the same
just curious....but at what point or how do you know it's your coworker's baby and not your husbands?
Court69 · M
I've been in a very similar situation. Pm me
angie8819 · 56-60, F
How do you explain it to people
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
You married to your boyfriend obviously you you have a husband that you’re married to

 
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