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gfantasy · 56-60, M
Well, don't rush things... The last thing you need is becoming attached to someone just so you can say/feel you have "someone special" in your life. Relationships are a pain... all the misunderstandings, the unrealistic expectations, the compromising... It's hard making it work and no wonder breakups and divorces are so prevalent... You only want to get into a relationship if you really, really like someone, if there's trust... One way to tell is whether AFTER the sex, you still crave cuddling together and chatting for hours... Also, thinking about someone constantly, when they're not there, is a giveaway you're "developing feelings" for that person, beyond sex and beyond friendship


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You said it so eloquently, the Von Trapp family seems to be the perfect example of what I strived to become. Unfortunately, there is no Julie Andrews to sing with us. Yet, there was quite a tight family dynamic.
Needing someone and finding them takes time, Rome wasn't built in a day. I am finding that true for myself
Needing someone and finding them takes time, Rome wasn't built in a day. I am finding that true for myself
ap199 · 51-55, M
Reading this makes me want feel love again. Something I haven’t felt in many years. I can assure you, you know when you feel it. It will happen without sex, without money. Just a warm feeling of happiness. If you think you found someone you could love, hold off on sex, keep it simple and see what happens :) I hope you feel this soon. I hope I do someday again too!
Raaii · 18-21, F
Everything will get better 🙇♀️🙇♀️
Guardian · 56-60, M
No, you DON'T NEED anyone, but its nice to have a friend, Friend!
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Spectre128 · 51-55, M
A good relationship should be unconditional, it shouldn't be a transaction. You'll know it when you experience it.
@Spectre128 This is true. Thank you. 🫶🏽
PicturesOfABetterTomorrow · 41-45, M
Don't worry about it too much and let yourself figure it out on your own terms.
Communication is also huge. Even in so called "vanilla" relationship dynamics that don't involve sex work most people suck at communicating.
Communication takes alot of the guess work out of things.
Also don't worry about "doing it wrong" because your way doesn't fit some pop culture idea of how relationships should work.
Most of what is out there is definitely not healthy to begin with and not something to emulate either.
Communication is also huge. Even in so called "vanilla" relationship dynamics that don't involve sex work most people suck at communicating.
Communication takes alot of the guess work out of things.
Also don't worry about "doing it wrong" because your way doesn't fit some pop culture idea of how relationships should work.
Most of what is out there is definitely not healthy to begin with and not something to emulate either.
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ProstituteAmy · 26-30, F
You need someone
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Would it be possible to take a slight step back,for instance,only do part time at work (16 a day is Alot,even half that is plenty).so you could spend more time out this inherent family trade,and breathe life outside of the inner circle.
It's possible to meet people away from there,by not surrounding yourself by it all 24/7..
There must be a Way..🤗😘
It's possible to meet people away from there,by not surrounding yourself by it all 24/7..
There must be a Way..🤗😘
@HotPizza71 I do meet people outside of the work environment, but us hookers do tend to stick together. I'll admit to being a bit wary of the secular world.
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