If a guy had a purity/promise ring unrelated to marriage or religion because he was saving himself for a special girl because he just wanted the first time to be with someone he was comfortable with would you still be interested in him? Like he always thought as a boy that the most romantic thing was to just wait for the right girl and give her the best gift he could that she could know she's his first (and hopefully only)? To be fair no one ever wanted him too and he got called ugly as a boy but that's besides the point. This dude is ripped now and has changed. What if that guy had never done ANYTHING and was really nervous at the prospect of touching you or being touched by you, like even smacking a girl's ass he got nervous about because he's a fairly big and strong guy and didn't want to hurt you?
Curiosity abounds. This guy's image below.
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I would have still married my husband if he had a promise ring
@zeframcochrane that’s not my exact age but yes. I’ve had people judge me for being married at a young age, but I know what I have is real and is much deeper than typical marriages.
@SW-User No judgement on the depth of it, more power to you. Just surprising in an age of singledom.
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@zeframcochrane I was committed to staying single forever on the slim chance of meeting someone I could connect with spiritually. It’s like once you stop thinking about something, it just magically appears. I’m pretty shocked myself still lol
@SW-User Interesting. I hear that a lot about love. But I can never stop thinking about it. I still have a crush on someone I'd like to see again. Hopefully that doesn't preclude me from ever experiencing something real.
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@zeframcochrane It’s important to be able to acknowledge and accept when something is no longer realistic nor worthwhile. Just don’t get caught up in liking a false idea you’ve created of someone, because all it’ll do is leave you feeling disappointed.
