If a man says to you he has no social life because he has kids, does it sound like he's saying he's single or complaining about his relationship?

I don't know if hes with anyone but for him to say he has no social life since he has kids who are under 10yrs old. Does that sound like he's saying he's single and can't date? Or he isn't having fun with his partner because of kids. I know it could be either but which sounds more likely to you? Hearing your opinions would be helpful. Thanks!

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Nayla · 51-55, F

He means that once you have kids, there's not alot of time to socialize. I had that experience too.

SweetFantasy · 26-30, F

@Nayla but put like that and if he offered up that information for discussion when he's generally a guarded person who doesnt talk about himself, would you think he's single or venting about an unhappy place hes in with a person?

Nayla · 51-55, F

@SweetFantasy it could be either situation. Why don't you ask him if his wife gets out to socialize

SweetFantasy · 26-30, F

@Nayla that is the best way to ask without asking lol I will try thanks

Nayla · 51-55, F

@SweetFantasy Does he wear a wedding ring? Have you checked out his social media? You can get alot of information about a person there

SweetFantasy · 26-30, F

@Nayla we have the same way of thinking. He has no ring so I assume he's not married (but someone commented not all men wear their rings) he doesnt have social media I cant find him but I found his friend and his friend is married with a ring so I dont know . I will ask without asking and if that doesnt work I'll just ask if hes married or with someone. I just don't want him to think I want him if hes with someone else.