I kind of judge men... but never women.

I'm not sure if I'm a bit odd or what but every time I hear about a man cheating on his wife, girlfriend, fiancée or whatever I get lowkey judgemental. I never say anything, it's not my business at the end of the day so I keep it to myself but the weird part is if I hear about it from the other side, with a woman cheating on her partner, I feel I'm quite understanding and almost border on supportive/admiring.

Don't really get why, how do other people feel?

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SinlessOnslaught · M

I understand the feeling. Personally I find it very hard in my interpersonal life to trust men. There have been few I actually feel comfortable around.

That said, though most of the people I trust are women, not all females have my trust either.

But you know the truth is that a person's gender doesn't condemn nor absolve them of fault. These are just biases and feelings at the end of the day. It's important to recognize. That doesn't mean being too hard on yourself, because a healthy amount of caution is necessary in life. Just don't let it color your opinion on real matters.

UKGuy89 · 31-35, M

@SinlessOnslaught I fully recognise it as a personal bias I'm just not sure where it's come from. These things are usually for a reason I just have a hard time figuring that out. Completely agree on your points about trusting people though.

Softandsweet2 · 31-35, F

I think it’s nearly always the other way around. Women are judged to be really bad if they have more than one partner - even if they’re single. You shouldn’t judge anyone. Many that do it don’t tell.

UKGuy89 · 31-35, M

@Softandsweet2 Yes I think I'd agree with that after thinking about it for a moment. Women certainly get more judgement for having multiple partners.

Ambersky · 51-55, F

I judge everyone. Not on gender, but on character.

romell · 51-55, M

Cheating is cheating it's gender neutral

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