What excuses have you heard to justify an affair?

@VeronicaJane because she's in labor.

@Roundandroundwego thats rude and cruel....

@VeronicaJane however does sound a reason enough ..if the spouse can but doesn't have sex..in some country's in courts it is even counted as cruelty to spouse.

@romell I can understand the 'cruelty' if the spouse is able to, but withholds, unless there are extenuating circumstances.

@VeronicaJane like

@romell ...oh say the spouse cheats, and the other spouse is understandably unhappy and doesn't want to be intimate with the cheater....

@VeronicaJane that's a good reason ,but say she or he is hale n hearty but just denies sex for the sake of denial so can control better the other side

@romell ...then that could fall within the definition of cruelty, unless they happen to be into BDSM ;-)

@VeronicaJane absolutely my point