If you were going to have an affair..

Would you be choosy about who you are going to have an affair with or would it not really matter? Would you plan it with someone or would it be more spontaneous? Would that person have to mean something to you or would it just be about the fun? Would it be a one time thing or would you hope for it to be a long term thing?

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tiltawhirl · 36-40, F

@StygianKohlrabi ohh lol. Okay. Yes, I am choosy. I have a plan but spontaneous would have been okay with me in certain situations I’m sure. I’d prefer that person to mean something to me and I’d prefer long term. But if it were more spontaneous then all the answers would probably change a bit.

StygianKohlrabi · M

@tiltawhirl yeah you want a stud because why go out for a hamburger when you have a steak at home?

tiltawhirl · 36-40, F

@StygianKohlrabi LOL. For me I’m choosy more so about if i actually have a connection with them, their personality, and their kinks.. that sorta thing. Like what we want kind of needs to match a bit. Unless of course it is spontaneous like I said and that would change everything.