I Think About Having An Affair

Whenever my husband and I have a fight, which in the last year or so seems to be 2 or 3 times a week, when it gets to a point of his anger getting out of control, he ends up calling me all sorts of demeaning names and points out all of my faults. He's loud. My kids hear all about me......I don't imagine they will ever forget the things they have heard and it makes me so sad.

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PusseycatJosie · 70-79, M

Time to infuse love into your family. Unless you are doing something terrible, the children should be looking at you as a victim who deserves understanding. Definitely the husband needs to submit to Jesus because he is failing as both husband and father, and this fighting and his name calling are going to screw up the children's lives and ruin the family ... permanently. Your only hope is in Messiah, the Good Book, and a lot of prayer.

Abba Father, I lift Mrs. Carolina Blues into Your hands, and I place her family under the instruction of Holy Spirit that they may gain wisdom, knowledge, love, and healing. Open the husband's eyes that he may no longer be blind, but see the damage he is causing, repent of his wrongdoing, turn to our savior, Christ Jesus, and become the husband that he is supposed to be.

Please, soften his heart and break his will until he submits to You, repents of his ways, and turns his life over to doing good in Your name. Begin breaking his heart, causing him to be ashamed of himself for the way he is acting until he submits to the instruction of Holy Spirit.

All the while, please let him know that You love him very much and simply want him to be a better person. You sent Your son, our savior, to set us free from the bondage that destroys families. Please, set this man free from Satan's clutches. Amen, amen, and amen.