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Am i reading too much into it?

It was 1 am an my boyfriend of 7 months let me know his chest and stomach was feeling tight. We live together btw and decided to go to the urgent care just to double check on things. After he did his registration they took him back nd he said he would be back shortly. i was waiting in the waiting room with another person who was also there with their significant other. The dr came to the waiting room and told us we could both come back and wait with out s/o. I went back and he let me know he didnt feel comfortable with me back there and i should wait i the waiting area still. I was a little hurt but just brushed it off. Am i reading to much into this. Did he just want some privacy? When he came out he told me everything the dr said so if that is the case why wouldnt he be comfortable with me hearing it directly. Im trying not to overthink it because this is probably just trivial stuff but what do you think?
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
He didn't know what to expect from the Dr. and I'm sure he was doing that to save you from hearing the possibility of anything that can worry you .

That being said...
Id'of done the same thing , not sure if I would have said anything right away if there was any bad news
SW-User
Don’t take offence, some people react differently to stressful hospital or medical situations. One time my mother was with me when a woman came in to talk about my condition. She offered to come back later but my dear mother didn’t want to inconvenience her and said it was ok. I would have preferred to see her alone but by then it seemed too late! I still wish I had been more assertive.
Whodunnit · M
Yes, you're reading too much into it.
redredred · M
I had a heart attack ten years ago. Trust me, one is not thinking clearly, the pain is unimaginable. Imagine a mouse being crushed in a bench vise. That’s what it felt like. If he could even make the effort to speak clearly and civilly he loves you.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
he was probably in denial he was in the ER, trying not to panic, and didn't want to burden you.

I HOPE it was just panic attack - the symptoms can mimmick a heart attack.

you're still just getting to know each other - but guys in general hate to look weak.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Your boyfriend may have other issues that he didn't want you to know about and the doctor would have mentioned that when you came in to see him.
Why else would he not want you there ???
eMortal · M
Culture differences. Some people were raised with the idea medical records should be private first.
Justmeherek · 31-35, F
They had no idea what he had. He started to feel better and they let him go.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
I am curious what he could have 🤔
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I can't really say. I hate being alone in those places and prefer having a mind that is not inhibited by pain around. But people are different.

 
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