I made a previous post about a guy who studies the Torah, age 33 soon and a virgin. It's an online relationship, never met him yet. I told him my experiences with two people and it made me cry. Now fast forward, we still talking but yesterday morning after a night of me saying, i still "sometimes wish i could go back to my ex because he wouldn't ask me these questions cause it would be pure," he lost it. I told him the morning our last interaction was in January sexually and he left. I deactivated my instagram cause that's how we communicate. He reached out on my number 2 hrs after asking me to return to Instagram, i did. He then said he wants to be friends snd wants to do bible study cause it will help me get over my ex so I can be free for my future husband. I agreed.
This morning now he said he met up last night with his ex to cuddle an kiss. And that he was planning this morning to have sex with her and got a box of condoms! Mind you, this is a girl he says he can't consider for a wife cause she does not believe in God. They were off for a little of 2 months, i started talking to him in September. Thisbis a gurl he had an agreement with to do oral sex but he never had full on sex with....
We started saying i love yous etc. But he thinks i am attached to my first ex and this guys "owns" my heart. He also has hangups as a virgin. I am into this person and want him but I've had to bare my soul snd such.
I spoke to someone about this and they feel him running to her hours after is a red flag. He actually told me too which hurts a great deal.
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Oh girl. I'm sorry you feel connected to this person because you bared your soul to him. From what I'm seeing in the texts, he doesn't feel connected to you. He doesn't trust you, he's childish, and he says "whatever" WAY too much. This is not whatever. It's important to you.
As a 33 yo Torah student, he may be very inexperienced with women, and I don't mean sex, I mean interacting with and treating us like normal human beings.
