What should i do about a man whose wishy washy about me?

It's difficult for some men to open up when rhetoric goes on and on and on about abusive men, stalkers, creeps, sexual predators, etc. etc. etc. etc. I believe a lot of good men have gone into complete hiding because the few bad apples has made all look bad.

I won't dare ask a girl out due to fear of being taken to HR for sexual harassment and possibly losing my job. So if a girl wants to talk or wants to start something, I believe the rules have changed and I should be approached first. If I'm wrong about that I apologize, that's just how it feels to me.

You can only put so much effort in , if he’s not matching .

It’s likely he’s not the right fit , assuming he’s in our age group too, he’s old enough to know what he wants and how to express that .

Oh, welln if he's shy, making fun of him is SOOO the right move...

Sorry, I had sarcasm mode activated; here
#undef __SARCASM__

Now we're good

Date an older more experienced man

Depends on how you feel about him being wishy washy, so either:

Wax on / wax off

Or:

Whacku Smacky

If he isn’t direct move on 🤷🏾‍♂