How do you slow dance when your girlfriend has dwarfism?

How would you personally slow dance with your girlfriend if they are 3‘8“ and you are 5‘11“? I am trying to plan activities for our date on Friday, we are possibly going bowling, and or dancing, then for sure dinner and a movie afterwards. if anyone has any experience or advice that would be great.

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Tumbleweed · F

So you're just gonna go on & on about her height?! You should have thought about that before you started dating her rather than go on & on about it. It probably makes her feel pretty good you keep making it an issue.. 🙄

DattheFirsT · 31-35, M

@Tumbleweed no I’m not making an issue. I never bring it up around her, aside from the brief discussions we’ve had when she brought it up herself. The reason I’m bringing it up here a lot is just because if other people have had any experience. I’m super nervous and I really don’t want to mess anything up

Tumbleweed · F

@DattheFirsT Ok, gotcha.
Well I think the only way for you to dance with her would be to simply hold her. Let her lay her head on your chest & just move to the music with her.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Tumbleweed This is the one with the obsession with children. Check the profile. Now it’s dwarfism. 🙄

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Tumbleweed · F

@OlderSometimesWiser Omg, AGAIN???

DattheFirsT · 31-35, M

@OlderSometimesWiser OMG why do people keep saying that. I was nervous enough coming on here to ask questions about my girlfriend, I’m literally just asking a question. I don’t know how to prove that to you guys

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Tumbleweed Yep. The sicko keeps coming back for more.

DattheFirsT · 31-35, M

@Tumbleweed thank you. I’m just trying to think if I was a nervous position. Like if she would have trouble reaching my arms, and if she would particularly enjoy just looking up at me the whole time. See what I mean? I want to make it enjoyable for the both of us

Tumbleweed · F

@DattheFirsT Ask her what would make her feel most comfortable. She could hold you closer if you were to simply hold her.

DattheFirsT · 31-35, M

@Tumbleweed thanks. I just really hope this goes good. I’m hoping for the perfect song to come on at the end for the big midnight smooch 😀 we shall see. I really hope so though