Why does my bf has only one interest in me that is physically.
No other interests??
I find it very absurd .
I find it very absurd .
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Rudboy41 · 41-45, M
In relationships there is a difference between intimacy and physical sex. If you look at how your relationship started, that was your sex 'base line' was it just fucking from the begging and you eventually can't keep up with his libido anymore? or was there some other type of intimacy engaging besides just physical sex.
There are many reasons that i guy can start being hyperfocused on the physical sex in the relationship, at the expense of the intimacy of the relationship.
Your boyfriend might be medicating his own issues with sex for instance, with the tell tale sign -- what the vibe is like after the orgasm? does he want to cuddle or does he get cold and go back to normal, making you feel like a roomate?
If the answer was yes, then it's likely that he is using sex(i.e your body) to feel better about himself, the reason could be that i might have a habit with porn or be hypersexualized as a result of trauma that he is trying to soothe.
I can't tell what his reason is, but my advice is that you need to address it with him that your relationship is starting to feel transactional and the intimacy elephant. On his end he should look at why he needs the sex more than intimacy and work backwards as to how and why he got there.
If it's not worth asking these questions or putting in the effort of talking, then i'd say just end things.
There are many reasons that i guy can start being hyperfocused on the physical sex in the relationship, at the expense of the intimacy of the relationship.
Your boyfriend might be medicating his own issues with sex for instance, with the tell tale sign -- what the vibe is like after the orgasm? does he want to cuddle or does he get cold and go back to normal, making you feel like a roomate?
If the answer was yes, then it's likely that he is using sex(i.e your body) to feel better about himself, the reason could be that i might have a habit with porn or be hypersexualized as a result of trauma that he is trying to soothe.
I can't tell what his reason is, but my advice is that you need to address it with him that your relationship is starting to feel transactional and the intimacy elephant. On his end he should look at why he needs the sex more than intimacy and work backwards as to how and why he got there.
If it's not worth asking these questions or putting in the effort of talking, then i'd say just end things.