I entered into a relationship with someone with BPD not knowing what that entails. I dont know if I just went through the idealisation, devaluation an

d discard phases. This really, really hurts. Can I talk to anyone?

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There is no talking your hurt out of such a situation.
Either you have to accept this is what it will be and stop taking their highs and lows personally, or exit the relationship and find a way to heal the hurt that is there.