Do good men exists?

Most of my experiences with men were bad. Most men seem egoistic type who come in my life who tend to abuse, betray , put me down or be emotionally unavailable. Do any other women have, good experiences with men who treat them good? Sometimes all my experiences make me question the existance of good men, sometimes i feel are all men pretending and men only want to suppress, feel superior, control or use women.

Maybe i am bad at judging men or choosing men who are bad and good. Idk what i am doing wrong

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

My experience most men in there 50's upwards are very mature . I did have run ins with men tho in that age bracket but people in there 20's 30' or even 40's forget about . In one ear and out the other ear or else you"ll end up mentally fucked for a long time .
My experience with women I got nervous breakdowns over women . 3 of them in my life .
I'm gonna ask you a question please answer this for me and I'm saying it about you .
Do all women cheat ? I had that experience with everyone woman I was with

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@riseofthemachine My experience with many old men too weren't good, many of them are perverts, easily 1 in 5 of them. Maybe u r just in wrong circle of men around u or wrong place, that;s . i am not a man so idk about men much. But i met saw few decent young ones too, only few. Maybe i was around indecent ones or wrong places/ enviornments Personally i don't think all women cheat, some do and some don't. Maybe u r attracting, choosing or getting attracted to wrong type women. I heard sometimes people subconcioulsy choose toxic partners.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@riseofthemachine i think in some cases even good women too cheat, especially if she had bad experience with the man she is with and can't divorce him. or if she dislikes the man a lot. It might happen. But i don't have any cheater type female acquiantances except 1 i think, she only once tried to cheat on bad men who used other girls bcuz she was frustrated by her break up i think. She is decent person in general. Her friend cheats even on good and normal innocent guys. I think the friends we r with influences our behaviours.