Do good men exists?

Most of my experiences with men were bad. Most men seem egoistic type who come in my life who tend to abuse, betray , put me down or be emotionally unavailable. Do any other women have, good experiences with men who treat them good? Sometimes all my experiences make me question the existance of good men, sometimes i feel are all men pretending and men only want to suppress, feel superior, control or use women.

Maybe i am bad at judging men or choosing men who are bad and good. Idk what i am doing wrong

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As0if · 26-30, F

I feel you, haven’t met a single one who would give back exactly what I give to them. So yup, not trusting men anymore, at least I’m not involving emotions anymore.

Sorry to hear that happened to you, PM me if you wanna talk

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@As0if yes, don't settle for less than u deserve.

As0if · 26-30, F

@MrSmooTh But they are all nice on the beginning, and when I give my everything in relationship, if slightest thing bothers me, they begin to act indifferent. I don’t have see through vision 🙃

As0if · 26-30, F

@sahi81 At this point imma be that single, rich auntie without kids. Minus this *rich* part 😂

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@As0if it happens to u often? then it might be a pattern? i think there must be something wrong with the guys u r choosing or the ur behavior that making men take u for different . Have u considered seeking couples therapy?

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

@As0if Not minus the rich part. That's kind of the whole point of not having kids or a spouse. You stack money. I don't really worry about money right now.

As0if · 26-30, F

@sahi81 Often, since I was 16. I was kid then and I was afraid to step into relationship, but those guys were older than me and I figured they don’t want a date. So later on, it made it difficult for me to actually trust someone, so those were short relationships. And when I got the courage - I got disappointed twice. So I guess alone till the end of my life it is 😂
No, I haven’t considered seeking any kind of therapy but I would need many 😂

As0if · 26-30, F

@MrSmooTh Well I’m expensive. Gotta cover nails, hair, skincare, all kinds of cosmetics and makeup, travels etc, it all costs. So yeah minus rich part 😂

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