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Malai · 22-25, F
@Frostcloud Hmm....If I say here it might offend people, but I think the reason being High topterone level and their dick still gets as hard as it used to be same like when they were in their 20's ......We women can't say same words after having 2-3 kids and reaching 40 yrs old age
A very controversial subject that is often looked down upon in the Western World.
But when I lived in Asia, I found it was quite common, and large age gap relationships existed even with the locals.
I had a yardboy that was in his 40's and his wife was a very good looking woman in her early 20's. I once asked him how he met her and he explained that he had first seen her in their village when he was in his late teens and she was just a toddler....and he further stated that he knew when he first saw her that someday he would marry her. I was kind of intrigued, so I asked him about that..... he explained that it took many years in his country to accumulate enough wealth to provide a "lot and home" for a family. So in essence, he had to first obtain enough financially to better himself to the point where he felt secure enough to ask her parents if they could "court each other."
And all that then gets VERY twisted when a "rich" expat shows up in a country where the expat's monthly income is significantly more than the yearly income of a local.
What does the older expat gain?: A young hardbody that doesn't seem to care one iota about how "old" or "ugly" or anything else that Western women have called him in the past.
What does the young lady gain?: Security, specifically FINANCIAL SECURITY. In countries where old age pensions do not exist her family tends to look up at her as successful because she snagged herself a "rich" expat... And as an aside.... she gets a mentor that has "been there and done that" and can advise her about life's trials and tribulations.
What I see a lot (I still talk to many friends still living in Asia) is that he will pay for her to finish her schooling and graduate college so that she may become successful when he is gone. And often there is money to take care of her parents as well (some guys do and some don't). When I see these marriages go South is often when he brings her back to his home country (often to treat his medical aliments, if any ) and she quickly becomes Westernized and socializes with young ladies from her own country that encourage her to join them for girls nights out where she gets a lot of attention from young men her own age.... Remember, he is ugly and old.....
But when I lived in Asia, I found it was quite common, and large age gap relationships existed even with the locals.
I had a yardboy that was in his 40's and his wife was a very good looking woman in her early 20's. I once asked him how he met her and he explained that he had first seen her in their village when he was in his late teens and she was just a toddler....and he further stated that he knew when he first saw her that someday he would marry her. I was kind of intrigued, so I asked him about that..... he explained that it took many years in his country to accumulate enough wealth to provide a "lot and home" for a family. So in essence, he had to first obtain enough financially to better himself to the point where he felt secure enough to ask her parents if they could "court each other."
And all that then gets VERY twisted when a "rich" expat shows up in a country where the expat's monthly income is significantly more than the yearly income of a local.
What does the older expat gain?: A young hardbody that doesn't seem to care one iota about how "old" or "ugly" or anything else that Western women have called him in the past.
What does the young lady gain?: Security, specifically FINANCIAL SECURITY. In countries where old age pensions do not exist her family tends to look up at her as successful because she snagged herself a "rich" expat... And as an aside.... she gets a mentor that has "been there and done that" and can advise her about life's trials and tribulations.
What I see a lot (I still talk to many friends still living in Asia) is that he will pay for her to finish her schooling and graduate college so that she may become successful when he is gone. And often there is money to take care of her parents as well (some guys do and some don't). When I see these marriages go South is often when he brings her back to his home country (often to treat his medical aliments, if any ) and she quickly becomes Westernized and socializes with young ladies from her own country that encourage her to join them for girls nights out where she gets a lot of attention from young men her own age.... Remember, he is ugly and old.....
billybob69 · 61-69
Redbeard · 56-60, M
Again, it depends on the personality. I myself prefer one closer to my age.
dsrice10 · 56-60, M
I would like to do that but it would need to be okay with that.
Bowenw · 61-69, M
Of course.
Wolffy · 56-60, M
Yes mame we do
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
that's her dad