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Richard65 · M
If you could get over someone quickly, it suggests you weren't very invested in the relationship in the first place, so be careful what you wish for. If it takes a while to get over them, then it shows your commitment was genuine and your emotions are solid. Trying to get over someone quickly isn't being true to yourself, so embrace the pain. It shows you gave a lot of yourself to the relationship, which does you credit and makes you a decent human being. It's part of life, so experience it because we are the sum of our experiences.