Guys confuse me

Yesterday I went to a singles mixer event and saw two guys staring gazing at me for a moment not just like loom really quick but like checking me out it appeared. Anywho I had a little alcohol courage and went to say hi to them at different times to each guy and try to start a conversation but they seemed uninterested in our chat so I just left it. I felt really awkward going up to them because I thought they were interested in me. Anywho has anyone ever had this happen to them or have any of you guys down this to a girl and why?

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WandererTony · 56-60, M

As a man it has often happened to me. Women who look at me longer than usual or more than once and as you used the term “check out” would respond very coldly when spoken to directly.

TraeCasey · 26-30, M

@WandererTony I wonder if it’s a form of playing hard to get because they feel like they’ve already been too forward with their state

TraeCasey · 26-30, M

@WandererTony or maybe there was a hidden conversation happening during this eye contact. Like you were meant to hold eye contact while maintaining your composure

WandererTony · 56-60, M

@TraeCasey maybe.

WandererTony · 56-60, M

@TraeCasey you seem to have given these matters a lot of thought and study. 😊

TraeCasey · 26-30, M

@WandererTony oh trust me I have 😂