Guys confuse me

Yesterday I went to a singles mixer event and saw two guys staring gazing at me for a moment not just like loom really quick but like checking me out it appeared. Anywho I had a little alcohol courage and went to say hi to them at different times to each guy and try to start a conversation but they seemed uninterested in our chat so I just left it. I felt really awkward going up to them because I thought they were interested in me. Anywho has anyone ever had this happen to them or have any of you guys down this to a girl and why?

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SomeMichGuy · M

Hmmmm...no, but maybe

1) They were looking at someone else along the same sight line (behind you, for instance).

OR

2) They had a private conversation something like this:

A: Hey...you see that girl over there?

[B figures out who it is]

B: OK, yeah, the cute one wearing <whatever>? [A nods] What about her?

A: Is she...no, it couldn't be...but...wow...I think it might be...

B: Huh? Who is it? You KNOW her?

A: Yes, I think so...she looks like <G, name of an ex of A>.

B: REALLY?

A: Yes...I think so...her face looks like G, her body looks like G; that outfit is TOTALLY G...

B: DUDE...I think you're right; it IS G! What do you want to do?

A: Oh, wait...she's heading this way... Oh...no, she's not G...

B: Oh...yeah, now that I that.