I'm in a bit of a mind fog, I have two options guys you can just pick Option A,B or C.

Poll - Total Votes: 32

A.Move in with him to Germany, accept his stance on my parents

B. Break up, change city, start taking life by myself and maybe do some business with a girl friend

C. Become a nun.

You can only vote on one answer.

Short Brief Summary: 5 yr old relationship, we need to relocate. Initial plans of moving to a country have been shunned by my parents that no longer want me there with them. My partner is pissed, never wants to see them again, hates them. I cannot live without my parents and my family in my life in some sort, I love them too much and I know my parents want the best for me. So its a dealbreaker.

Option A- Do I move with him to a new country I dont speak the language to, and I wont be probably able to work in for quite a while while he focuses on his career?

Option B- Break up with him, move to a different city of where I currently am and move in with a girlfriend and just try to work together on things.

Option C- Remove contact with everyone and everything, become a nun.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Wasting valuable time in your life isn’t an adventure. Don’t grow for him. Grow for you. Let the adventures be yours, not his. Don’t be a passenger.

Option B, final answer.

Ratatouillesque · 26-30, F

@Adogslife Thank you, this is what the other side of me is thinking as well. But unfortunately there s also the other side of me and they are conflicting. Thank you for the answer!