I'm in a bit of a mind fog, I have two options guys you can just pick Option A,B or C.

Poll - Total Votes: 32

A.Move in with him to Germany, accept his stance on my parents

B. Break up, change city, start taking life by myself and maybe do some business with a girl friend

C. Become a nun.

You can only vote on one answer.

Short Brief Summary: 5 yr old relationship, we need to relocate. Initial plans of moving to a country have been shunned by my parents that no longer want me there with them. My partner is pissed, never wants to see them again, hates them. I cannot live without my parents and my family in my life in some sort, I love them too much and I know my parents want the best for me. So its a dealbreaker.

Option A- Do I move with him to a new country I dont speak the language to, and I wont be probably able to work in for quite a while while he focuses on his career?

Option B- Break up with him, move to a different city of where I currently am and move in with a girlfriend and just try to work together on things.

Option C- Remove contact with everyone and everything, become a nun.

Tamara68 · 56-60, F

If he looks anything like my ex and tries to block contact between you and your parents, you will be sad and miserable. If you go with him, you need to promise yourself to go back if it doesn't work out well.

Ratatouillesque · 26-30, F

@Tamara68 Honestly when I heard that from him this is what I was thinking about! I was unbelievably insulted and annoyed, I told myself this cannot be my life and my relationship! You cannot make me choose between people that have cared for me for my entire life and you! It doesnt have any reason to be this way!!!

Tamara68 · 56-60, F

@Ratatouillesque It is important to hold on to what is essentially important to you. If a partner doesn't acknowledge that, he is not the right one.