I'm in a bit of a mind fog, I have two options guys you can just pick Option A,B or C.

Poll - Total Votes: 32

A.Move in with him to Germany, accept his stance on my parents

B. Break up, change city, start taking life by myself and maybe do some business with a girl friend

C. Become a nun.

You can only vote on one answer.

Short Brief Summary: 5 yr old relationship, we need to relocate. Initial plans of moving to a country have been shunned by my parents that no longer want me there with them. My partner is pissed, never wants to see them again, hates them. I cannot live without my parents and my family in my life in some sort, I love them too much and I know my parents want the best for me. So its a dealbreaker.

Option A- Do I move with him to a new country I dont speak the language to, and I wont be probably able to work in for quite a while while he focuses on his career?

Option B- Break up with him, move to a different city of where I currently am and move in with a girlfriend and just try to work together on things.

Option C- Remove contact with everyone and everything, become a nun.

OogieBoogie · F

Youre young.

I think your 20's are for taking risks, making mistakes and going for it.

No other decade in your life is as free and has as much rebound potential as your 20's.

Your parents will always love you .

But doing something this big might not always be there.

Id say go for it ! Do it !
Do something radical, or forever wish you had.

Ratatouillesque · 26-30, F

@OogieBoogie This comment made me shed so many tears. Thank you.. I hope it works out in the end.