If a man calls you "beautiful woman" initiates texting you and calling you but consider you a friend only, what's his problem?
36-40, F
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shakemeup · 36-40
I had a friend like this once. He had all kinds of affectionate terms for me, including beautiful. But I quickly noticed he did this to all his lady friends. It was just how he interacts with ladies he feels close to. It definitely had some flirtatious vibes to it. But that was just how he rolled. He just had lots of rizz.
I had a crush on him, but the one time I took some of our back and forth flirting too far and actually expressed a desire for him... he made it clear that I was not hot enough...and not good enough. I was thoroughly friend zoned. His exes were all drop dead gorgeous ladies.
He made a good friend though. And I appreciated that alot. Even though it stung a bit for a few months. I had to ask him to stop calling me such things because it made it more difficult to squash that crush away. He did so, and after awhile I got over him and we were friends for many years.
I'd suggest doing what I did-ask him nicely to stop calling you things like beautiful if it bothers you.
I had a crush on him, but the one time I took some of our back and forth flirting too far and actually expressed a desire for him... he made it clear that I was not hot enough...and not good enough. I was thoroughly friend zoned. His exes were all drop dead gorgeous ladies.
He made a good friend though. And I appreciated that alot. Even though it stung a bit for a few months. I had to ask him to stop calling me such things because it made it more difficult to squash that crush away. He did so, and after awhile I got over him and we were friends for many years.
I'd suggest doing what I did-ask him nicely to stop calling you things like beautiful if it bothers you.