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SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
Lots of young women have high expectations and standatds for the men they wanna marry but little to nothing to bring to the table.....
They expect the man to take responsibility for everything as they enjoy the benefits but are willing to do their part of the responsibility
Marriage now seems so unattractive to young men bcos in the end its the man's loss
Especially if you are a good or "nice man"
They expect the man to take responsibility for everything as they enjoy the benefits but are willing to do their part of the responsibility
Marriage now seems so unattractive to young men bcos in the end its the man's loss
Especially if you are a good or "nice man"
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@SilentObZerver I never really understood the reasoning behind bad boys?
I think maybe,women are afraid to admit they want a strong, dependable man? Some believe we'd have to give up independence if we select a nice guy.
And mistake it as weakness and see abusers as strong?
Verbal abuse is abuse,cheating is abuse,berating is abuse, constantly putting his needs above yours is abuse...
on the other side, I do find never having own opinon and acting like a slave to anything I may request to be a turn off,but I don't aquite that with being nice.
I would think a guy would find a submissive with no real personality in a woman to also be a turn off.
Not every woman feels or acts the same way.
Lots of men are players,for example,but not all.
I think if we accept bad behavior it keeps people alone after a few relationships believing "All" men and "All" women are the same way..
We been taught to be princess or girl bosses, I think happiness cannot be find in either extreme.
I think maybe,women are afraid to admit they want a strong, dependable man? Some believe we'd have to give up independence if we select a nice guy.
And mistake it as weakness and see abusers as strong?
Verbal abuse is abuse,cheating is abuse,berating is abuse, constantly putting his needs above yours is abuse...
on the other side, I do find never having own opinon and acting like a slave to anything I may request to be a turn off,but I don't aquite that with being nice.
I would think a guy would find a submissive with no real personality in a woman to also be a turn off.
Not every woman feels or acts the same way.
Lots of men are players,for example,but not all.
I think if we accept bad behavior it keeps people alone after a few relationships believing "All" men and "All" women are the same way..
We been taught to be princess or girl bosses, I think happiness cannot be find in either extreme.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Justmeraeagain yeah exactly....so if players and "bad boys" are getting to sleep with lots of girls without committing to one...
I.e girls are rewarding bad guys
Why will guys wanna marry?
Most Girls only find "nice guys" attractive, after years of sleeping around and realise their biological clock is ticking and wanna settle down , when all those bad guys didnt consider them worthy enough for marriage
I.e girls are rewarding bad guys
Why will guys wanna marry?
Most Girls only find "nice guys" attractive, after years of sleeping around and realise their biological clock is ticking and wanna settle down , when all those bad guys didnt consider them worthy enough for marriage
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@SilentObZerver That's sad,really.