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Okay help a nilla out

When a guy:

- cooks for you
- mows and edges for you (for free ofc)
- spends time, money and effort to come see you 29 miles away
- makes you feel super special on your bday
- kisses you like he means it
- says he is dating only you and appreciates when you say the same

Yet he:

- says he doesn't want a relationship right now

Because he:

- is not where he wants to be in life yet
- thinks it's too soon

But you, the woman, feel:

- he could level up WITH you
- he isn't taking you off the market to prevent other guys from sweeping you off your feet
- any time you have to wonder, that is kiiinda your answer
- he isn't trying as hard as he used to...

...that is a fuck boy situationship right??
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
This sounds like a relationship to me but why won’t he make it official?

It does sound like he’s not labeling it in case someone else comes around. I am sorry.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@iamonfire696 exactly..we are playing house, and he is PUTTING ME ON LAYAWAY..while he shops the store, i feel. he SAYS he is not dating anyone else..but even if he isnt currently..i feel he has left the door open.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@foldedunfolding that’s exactly what it sounds like and you deserve better.