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Okay help a nilla out

When a guy:

- cooks for you
- mows and edges for you (for free ofc)
- spends time, money and effort to come see you 29 miles away
- makes you feel super special on your bday
- kisses you like he means it
- says he is dating only you and appreciates when you say the same

Yet he:

- says he doesn't want a relationship right now

Because he:

- is not where he wants to be in life yet
- thinks it's too soon

But you, the woman, feel:

- he could level up WITH you
- he isn't taking you off the market to prevent other guys from sweeping you off your feet
- any time you have to wonder, that is kiiinda your answer
- he isn't trying as hard as he used to...

...that is a fuck boy situationship right??
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caccoon · 36-40
Yes it is. 😔

I'm so sorry
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@caccoon aw thank you for the honest feedback and empathy.
caccoon · 36-40
@foldedunfolding I'm sorry, I've been in a similar situation and it was a lot like you're mentioning. It's a heartbreaking state to be in and it keeps you on edge

I hope you will find a way to be okay in it or otherwise get out 💙💙💙 I'm sorry girl. You deserve more