Okay help a nilla out

When a guy:

- cooks for you
- mows and edges for you (for free ofc)
- spends time, money and effort to come see you 29 miles away
- makes you feel super special on your bday
- kisses you like he means it
- says he is dating only you and appreciates when you say the same

Yet he:

- says he doesn't want a relationship right now

Because he:

- is not where he wants to be in life yet
- thinks it's too soon

But you, the woman, feel:

- he could level up WITH you
- he isn't taking you off the market to prevent other guys from sweeping you off your feet
- any time you have to wonder, that is kiiinda your answer
- he isn't trying as hard as he used to...

...that is a fuck boy situationship right??

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Justafantasy · M

Question. Mows and edges? The lawn or a sexual thing.

Could be unseen details good or bad. I'd think he has something unfinished he wants done before admitting to being in a relationship. Business/school/divorce etc.

Sometimes it's best to enjoy and not question everything.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Justafantasy lawn love lol..and he is definitely not married..but i do see that he wants to move up in his career. he only makes a slight bit less than me though..that kind of thing so does not bother me.

Justafantasy · M

@foldedunfolding I can't speak for anyone else's situation.