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Can a Friendship Turn Romantic?

I had a conversation with a friend over the weekend who said she hates using dating apps. She prefers to get to know someone as a friend first, and then see if it turns into something romantic.

I commented how that feels exactly opposite of my experience. For me, when someone is a friend, you don't want to muck it up by adding a romantic dimension to the relationship. It's why people have labeled it the "friend zone." My friend said she finds it much easier to ask out someone she already has built trust with. And I said that I would find it much more awkward to do so.

What do you think? Have you ever experienced a friendship turned romantic? If so, how did it happen? Because sorry, I just can't get my mind around it.
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ArtieKat · M
[quote]Have you ever experienced a friendship turned romantic[/quote] I haven't - ever! But I have experienced the opposite in one or two cases where an ex-girlfriend became a good friend
ThomReidTheBlack · 41-45, M
@ArtieKat Yeah. I have some ex girlfriends who are good friends. Has that ever given you problems with new partners taking issue with that?
ArtieKat · M
@ThomReidTheBlack No - but I did have problems when one of my oldest platonic friends got a new boyfriend. Although he paid lip-service to respecting our relationship he did everything he could to undermine it. I gave him a job when he was out-of-work, and he stabbed me in the back over that too