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Can a Friendship Turn Romantic?

I had a conversation with a friend over the weekend who said she hates using dating apps. She prefers to get to know someone as a friend first, and then see if it turns into something romantic.

I commented how that feels exactly opposite of my experience. For me, when someone is a friend, you don't want to muck it up by adding a romantic dimension to the relationship. It's why people have labeled it the "friend zone." My friend said she finds it much easier to ask out someone she already has built trust with. And I said that I would find it much more awkward to do so.

What do you think? Have you ever experienced a friendship turned romantic? If so, how did it happen? Because sorry, I just can't get my mind around it.
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Elisbch · M
I would now prefer being friends first but that hasn't been the way its happened for me most times.
ShadowSister · 46-50, F
@Elisbch How has it usually happened for you?
Elisbch · M
@ShadowSister .. Usually meet a woman and not really spend that much time actually trying to develop a friendship base and in turn not really getting to know who she really is. Everything focused on a romance can tend to blur a lot of things.
ShadowSister · 46-50, F
@Elisbch Are you with someone now?
Elisbch · M
@ShadowSister .. No I'm not. I don't mind being single. 😊
ShadowSister · 46-50, F
@Elisbch That's great!