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Can a Friendship Turn Romantic?

I had a conversation with a friend over the weekend who said she hates using dating apps. She prefers to get to know someone as a friend first, and then see if it turns into something romantic.

I commented how that feels exactly opposite of my experience. For me, when someone is a friend, you don't want to muck it up by adding a romantic dimension to the relationship. It's why people have labeled it the "friend zone." My friend said she finds it much easier to ask out someone she already has built trust with. And I said that I would find it much more awkward to do so.

What do you think? Have you ever experienced a friendship turned romantic? If so, how did it happen? Because sorry, I just can't get my mind around it.
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I got too involved with someone I thought I could approach as a romantic partner but she only looks at me as nothing but a supportive friend. No matter how much I hinted at it she just said I was sweet but never anything she felt was a mutual feeling. So I am just going to back off now and keep other options open.. Although we did enjoy our lengthy chats. I will always be her friend but from a distance
ShadowSister · 46-50, F
@mindlessdrifter Ahh, this is exactly the kind of scenario I had in mind when I asked the question. Thanks for your answer.
@ShadowSister Thank you much