Does age matter in love
Does age really matter in love ? The one is in 50 and I am in 30
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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Kinda going through that right now but on both sides. Have a friend that is 7 years older that i proposed to back in 2000 but does not want to get married even though ive asked six times and another person thats 30 younger who lives overseas that ive known for quite a few years wants to marry me. Not as a scam but is sincerely in love with me and Ive grown very fond of them too. But sometimes just because you want to do something and can do something it doesn't mean that you should do it as it will hurt someone else. Or...do you just say," you had your chance.".
PoetryNEmotion · F
@Tastyfrzz If you want to marry them, and they do not want to marry you, what would be the point of having them in your life still? Is that fair to you? It must be a form of torture. Overseas? That is a lot to contend with. They may want a whole new life with you. The reality is they come from a different culture likely. And you would never know if it would work out unless you marry that person. Sounds like a lot of chaos. Two relationships. Both unfulfilled.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
@PoetryNEmotion i did go over and spent a week with them. But yeah, like you say. A lot of chaos. Hard to just give up.
PoetryNEmotion · F
@Tastyfrzz You have to do what is best for you. At the end of the day, it is you that counts. If you cannot love someone, let them be free. Free to find their true love.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
@PoetryNEmotion i think she loves me but just won't do marriage.