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So i recently re-connected with an old coworker/love interest (if you have read my old post then you know a little bit about our story)
I sent him a request on fb sometime in october.he only accepted it in january....whenever we exchange messages or if he just reads mine it always takes him a week to make the next "move" usually after midnight and between 3 am.

He is married....am i silly to think that his behaviour reflects he might still feel something towards me?
I mean otherwise accepting a request and replying to messages during the day would not be a big deal.

Before anyone attacks ne: i am not flirting with him,nothing inappropriate is goibg on.

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BTW lately i've heard people speculating how the marriage is on the rocks and thsy might live apart (different cities)
Also i have to add we had a nasty ending...
When i quit my job he told me "i want all or nothjng" i did not know what he meant so i kinda ignored it
He then heard i was proposed to ..2 weeks later he proposed to her now wife
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KA9ha · 31-35, M
he is just looking for a "one night stand" kind of short term rest and night out company.
DONT ENTRUST HIM WITH YOUR BODY to play with and ruin you emotionaly
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@KA9ha honestly he has so many opportunities,he never crossed the line
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain He is assuming you are single since you sent him the facebook request.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain so that made you trust him??? and that too to enable his overnight stay?
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@Subsumedpat he would be keeping apart initially,,, waiting and baiting ,,,,,maybe responding to a facebook request he siezed the opportunity again after going thru different options initially..
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@KA9ha why would he sleep over? 🙄
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@Subsumedpat that's just so silly🤦‍♀️so if i say hi to someone from the opposite sex i deff want him and i'm single
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain Not a matter of just saying hi when you send an old co worker/love interest a friend request.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@Subsumedpat this should not be a big deal,nothing happened between us and we have not seen eachother since 2018
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain It is not a big deal he is just seeing it as a possible signal.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@Subsumedpat so you also think his behaviour is sus?