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I wanna know what you guys think

So i recently re-connected with an old coworker/love interest (if you have read my old post then you know a little bit about our story)
I sent him a request on fb sometime in october.he only accepted it in january....whenever we exchange messages or if he just reads mine it always takes him a week to make the next "move" usually after midnight and between 3 am.

He is married....am i silly to think that his behaviour reflects he might still feel something towards me?
I mean otherwise accepting a request and replying to messages during the day would not be a big deal.

Before anyone attacks ne: i am not flirting with him,nothing inappropriate is goibg on.

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BTW lately i've heard people speculating how the marriage is on the rocks and thsy might live apart (different cities)
Also i have to add we had a nasty ending...
When i quit my job he told me "i want all or nothjng" i did not know what he meant so i kinda ignored it
He then heard i was proposed to ..2 weeks later he proposed to her now wife
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Sure, but what do you really want from this guy? He's married. His wife probably wouldn't be happy that he has contact with you. You can have guy friends minus the drama.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 i was talking to another forner coworker,his nane came up. No one heard from him in years so i just wanted to ask what's up. But i couldn't just messages him due to his settings

He is a grown ass man,what's wrong with him talkjng to an old friend?
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain Nothing imo, but others might have an issue.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 i know but i always found those weird
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain Weird how? There's all kinds of comfort levels. I have a few women friends, and my current gf knows that, in fact, I've introduced her to as many of them as possible. Previous gf had zero tolerance. That's just the way it is.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 treating your partner like a kid,telling them who they can talk to...just because the other person is insecure. I never told any of my bf to cut someone out of their lives
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Girlbehindthecurtain You're more emotionally mature, enough to know that one cannot legitimately "make" someone do anything. Controlling people suck.
Girlbehindthecurtain · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 agreed