Discussing love languages and how they impact relationships
How do I find the their love language and pleasure them as much as they wants?
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Applepiedom · 56-60, M
@NewRaven well said
christylee · 36-40
@NewRaven at the same time how to not come as needy. I see my soft side being labelled as red flag/needy behavior.
NewRaven · 51-55, F
@christylee i don’t think showing your soft side and being vulnerable are needy traits. To me, needy is when you contact the person multiple times a day, trying to be with them 24 hours a day, more of a smothering of someone. That kind of thing. You should maintain your own interests and hobbies so that when you are together, you continue to have things to talk about.
But trying to show love in someone’s love language? I think most people would find that endearing because it’s not common given today’s rampant self centeredness.
But trying to show love in someone’s love language? I think most people would find that endearing because it’s not common given today’s rampant self centeredness.