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exexec · 61-69, C
Before we married, one of my wife's exes kept pestering her until she finally gave up and let him have one more date with sex. She told him that was it, and that she would never answer his calls again. He kept calling, and she never talked to him again.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@exexec smart lady but you cant blame him for wanting more.
exexec · 61-69, C
@olderuncle944 She had a girls-only weekend at her family's lake house and the guy showed up. I have pics of him with her hat weekend. I think that was when she finally agreed to let him have one more date if he would just leave.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@exexec But he didn't go away for a while .
exexec · 61-69, C
@olderuncle944 I think she let him take her out the first week of fall semester, then no more. He happened to be her first college lover her freshman year, but she dumped him after about four dates.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@exexec lucky for you
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
exexec · 61-69, C
@olderuncle944 She dumped him for the same reason she dumped most of her other college lovers. They treid to get her to break up with me, and she told them that she loved me, not them, so, "Goodbye. It's been fun."
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@exexec sounds reasonable to me my wife was the opposite.she had lovers after marriage and told me after the fact .
exexec · 61-69, C
@olderuncle944 Lynn had a few after we married with my permission and with limits.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@exexec after mine had several lovers i quit worrying about it i loved her and i knew she loved me i figured our marriage was more important than sex . Later i had several sex in counters but never told her
exexec · 61-69, C
@olderuncle944 It is a tricky practice. I hope it works out for you as well as it did for us.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@olderuncle944 It has been a stressful and long marriage