The guy I’m talking to lately is playing hot n cold games with me .

Some days he is all over me ,other days he just avoids me like I don’t exist.
For the records ,He is the water and I’m the fire sign .
I think we broke up yesterday,though there was nothing to break up from ,we exchanged some heated words and I think its over!

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somedude15 · 22-25, M

Always run from people who are hot and cold with their responses. If they want to be around you, they will be. Anything that's not an enthusiastic yes is a no.

UnderstandMe · F

@somedude15 I’ve tried my best ,it doesnt work around well with him.I have now reached a limit sadly.

Elisbch · M

I bet you have, but it's not about you.

I have to agree with @somedude15

[quote]Anything that's not an enthusiastic yes is a no. [/quote]

It's [i]him[/i]... and you can't control that at all no matter how hard you try unfortunately 🙁.. @UnderstandMe

Elisbch · M

I'm sorry, nobody likes to lose hope. It's frustrating but the only thing you can do is play it out for a while and see what happens. I would have a straight face-to-face talk with him about facts and feelings if it were me. I've been in relationships where I got played before and I would rather not be in one then get played again.... I think if he's mature enough to have a sit-down talk with you, then I would at least try that.
His response to having the conversation and or what he says during that conversation should give you a good indication where his mind and heart are. Be positive regardless, if only for yourself. .. Good luck and I hope it goes well for you! 🙏🏻🤞🏻😊 .. @UnderstandMe

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

I've had this... i think the going hot and cold like how you described is "f*ck boi" behaviour. Do they sometimes ask if you're up late at night?

Mine would be on for weeks. They'd be strong then distant for ages.

Elisbch · M

This kind.. = time to dump. 🙂👍🏻.. @PaleandPolluted

wonkywinky · 51-55, M

im fire Aries you?

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

What do you mean by 'water' and 'fire' signs?

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