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If a guy was interested in you romantically he wouldn't be so up for having sex so easily. Do you agree?

Even if he thinks there's a chance and that the woman has made advances.

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TexChik · F

Yep, If a man genuinely likes you, he does not want sex just yet. That's 3rd or 4th date territory...normally. In my case however, my poor hubby-to-be had fallen in love with a virgin. So, we were likely treading water in the 45+ date end of the pool before I finally realized he was the one I was saving myself for.

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TexChik · F

@PaleandPolluted what? He didnt want sex at all?

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@TexChik yes im complaining about him trying to have sex with me more than dating me..

TexChik · F

@PaleandPolluted It could be time for ruffies and handcuffs! 🤣😉

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

No way,a guy will have sex quickly even when romantically interested.My boyfriend and I had first date sex.

LadyJ · F

A man would have sex with a stick if it had tits ...so I'm not sure about this one 😏

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SW-User

@LadyJ im a timber technician it does haha

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@LadyJ I'm not sure why he messaged me. I don't resemble what he likes. I think he lowered his standards because the big chest, big bum girls who everyone wants weren't answering.

LadyJ · F

@PaleandPolluted Don't put yourself down...just because hes messaged you doesn't mean that hes lowered his standards maybe he genuinely likes you

TheGreatLeveler · 36-40, M

Not necessarily, but if a guy wanted to date you, he wouldn't mind waiting a few dates to have sex with you. Unless you slept with people on the first date before. Then there's no point in waiting.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@TheGreatLeveler whatever it was, it was the most confusing thing ever. He's got over it and I just cry all the time.

PatKirby · M

I'd have to say yes.

Northwest · M

Why would a guy, romantically interested in a woman, not want to have sex with her? That would be abnormal, unless the woman is only interested in a platonic relationship.

PicturesOfABetterTomorrow · 41-45, M

Not really. The two are not mutually exclusive and the sex drives of both parties can vary. For alot of people it has no bearing on romance at all.

wildbill83 · 41-45, M

sounds like a catch-22...

not sure how one can be romantically interested in someone without sex... 🤔

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@wildbill83 what im saying is they wouldn't want to do that that quickly before anything else. He actually wanted to meet just for that but we had ordinary conversations as well.

scooogy · 31-35, MVIP

That's been my "mistake" for most of my life now.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@scooogy think in this case its because we havent actually met in person, that possible stopped him being interested properly.who knows.

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