I have a Very Attractive friend. All the ladies love him and would love to have sex with him…

.. But I dont. Believe me I know he’s a gorgeous man. It would be so easy to do him, especially cause we’ve been friends for years. But 🤷‍♀️ I dunno, I just— don’t want to… like I wish I wanted to have sex with him, but-I don’t want to. Don’t care to… Is that odd? Is there something wrong with me?? If I wanted to have sex with him I would, right?

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Whodunnit · M

Acknowledging aesthetic appeal and feeling sexual desire are two completely different things though they are often conflated these days.

You just have a different sort of relationship, one that is other than physical, sexual, or romantic, and that's absolutely fine.

sirenofthesea · F

Yea I know a guy like that, he’s incredibly tall and good looking and I’m sure all the girls swoon over him but to me he’s just sort of boyish and annoying. I don’t see him the way they do.

MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F

@sirenofthesea Exactly.

Tukudo · 41-45, M

When you are in confusion better don't do.

fakable

perhaps the decision depends on him. perhaps you subconsciously feel it.

SW-User

All the ladies would like to have sex with him,but are they?

Gotallota · 36-40, M

Just do it … you’ll never know unless you do what it might be like

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

You’re thinking about it though

MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F

True…👀 and tbh I did have a long daydream about it once. But when I’m with him and I feel his energy, I don’t get turned on at all. He feels like a brother or a cousin… I just dk@Jenny1234

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