Are You A Guy?

Have you ever shed a tear because you were heartbroken. I'm just curious if guys cry over losing a lover.

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I have cried because I loved somebody who did not feel the same way about me.

I have never had a lover, so technically have never lost one.

karysma · 36-40, F

@JoyfulSilence You have never romantically loved anyone?

JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M

@karysma

I have felt deep love for many women over the years, but they never felt that way about me. I have never had a girlfriend.

karysma · 36-40, F

@JoyfulSilence It happens all the time to feel strongly for someone and they not return your feelings. How come you never had a girlfriend?

JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M

@karysma

I suppose I am undesirable. Perhaps too ugly, boring, depressing, clingy, I do not know. It is what it is. I have given up.

karysma · 36-40, F

@JoyfulSilence You are none of these things. You need to understand that each of us sets limits for ourselves. Once you do that you won't even dream to go past that limit. It's all in the mind really. Trust me I'd know. For years I lived a defeated life and was looking for a way out. That was until I changed my thinking.