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@Torsten Have you gotten tougher or numb?

@karysma I wouldnt say tougher. I still feel things of course but just raised with a certain mentality i suppose from my father. Maybe a bit numb also

@Torsten Should I be sad that you feel a bit numb 🥺

@karysma I dont say it in a bad way. Being numb to certain things can be a positive i think

@Torsten I guess you're right. I wish I didn't care to give my time to anybody but I made the mistake of opening that door. Now I'm feeling all kinds of things I'd rather not feel. Give me lessons on being numb 😅

@karysma I am sorry to hear that. Sorry to say but it takes many years of being treated like garbage and a doormat for others

@Torsten I'm sorry you had to go through such treatment. It's why I'm so desperate not to start anything with anybody. It's been years since I've been in a relationship and the thought of getting into one stresses me out 😭

@karysma thanks. Its life though and you just deal with the shit and go on with life i suppose.
Sounds like we have that in common. except for the stress part. Can I ask what about it stresses you out?

@Torsten The fact that I'll invest my time pleasing someone only for them to treat me bad stresses me out. I don't have the strength to stay in an unhappy relationship. I'd rather be alone