Are You A Guy?

Have you ever shed a tear because you were heartbroken. I'm just curious if guys cry over losing a lover.

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SethGreene531 · M

Sometimes grief unexpressed is even worse.
Either way, heartbreak is like a blade of frigid cold through the heart.

karysma · 31-35, F

@SethGreene531 The loss of a loved one is hard.

I've never experienced heartbreak. All I know is rejection

SethGreene531 · M

@karysma 😞Rejection is brutal too. You're unfairly disqualified without opportunity to contribute.

Yes indeed, the loss of a love, or God forbid --loved one--is an agonizing experience.

karysma · 31-35, F

@SethGreene531 But looking back I'm glad I wasn't given the opportunity to contribute because if I had I'd have been heartbroken for sure 😅

SethGreene531 · M

@karysma😅 Very true --the adage "Better to have loved and lost...." is not for everyone.

I think it's easier to get used to being on your own than face all the turmoil.
Heartbreak for sure---rejection's no fun either.

karysma · 31-35, F

@SethGreene531 So very true. I love being alone very much especially the past 3 years. I've learnt a lot about myself

SethGreene531 · M

@karysma Yes indeed! Solitude can be cathartic, even beautiful. In its quiet is space for much self reflection-- and revelation.

karysma · 31-35, F

@SethGreene531 So very true. Some people see being alone as a problem I don't know why 😀