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Flirting Advice

So, a woman at work ( who this time isn’t my superior or my subordinate. She is also age appropriate. ) keeps looking to make eye contact with me, and when she does she always smiles. It’s the only time I see her smile while she’s at work.

I’m pretty sure this is flirting. It’s not a fake “just to be nice smile”. It’s not an anxious “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do” smile. It’s more like a really pretty, really enthusiastic full face smile, with kind eyes and stuff, I dunno… she smiles.

So, how do I flirt with this woman?

I chat, I joke, I listen, we laugh. How does one engage in flirting?
So, how do I flirt with this woman?


My advice is: YOU DON'T.

Let me put it another way:
WHY WOULD YOU SHIT WHERE YOU EAT?
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Wanna bang?
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
@TheRascallyOne too forward bro! Plus I don’t actually want to bang her. Like I want to bang her, but I’m not going to bang her, if you catch my drift.
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@OneDayMore i don't understand
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
@TheRascallyOne I just want to flirt, I want to feel like someone finds me attractive.

I want to know that someone wants me for my body, not for my mind or sense of humour or some sort of messed up obligation.
You already said that -you chat ,you joke ,you listen you laugh .That's how an harmless touchless flirting done.
@OneDayMore Did I confuse you more ?
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
Well… @Caleidoscope I just thought it was something I didn’t know how to do!?

Like imagine you thought you couldn’t play the piano and all of a sudden you can? Not like Mozart or anything but a half decent jazz swing or something.

I’m now considering all the people that could’ve been flirting with me and I’m agog.

It’s confusing to say the least.
@OneDayMore Now that you Know !You should start your R &D 😅
You're shitting in your larder, dude...
sasanack · 61-69, M
well if you really do all things you mentioned above , apart from body language, eye contact , you could try one more thing .....like ask her out , just off the top of my head ,i know the idea is a bit out there.............🤔😔
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
Don't do it. It will not turn out well for either of you.
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
I know! I’ve just never been in the position before @hippyjoe1955 I’ve never received attention in this way and I’m interested in what it means. No-one has ever been attracted to me so this is all new.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Aren't you married?
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
@Starcrossed I am indeed!
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Uggg hey baby
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Get divorced
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
@SkeetSkeet That’s not going to help me. Did you know there are lots of marriages that may not conform to your view of what is and-is-not ok in a marriage?

You may not agree with my posts or life choices, feel free to block me or just ignore them, it’s fine. You do you, I’ll do me.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@OneDayMore I'm im a sexless marriage too
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
@SkeetSkeet I’m sorry to hear that. It’s must be difficult for you. Have you considered divorce? Do you want to talk about it?

Does it make you feel unwanted? Unwelcome? Undesirable? Any other “Un” words?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I wouldn’t do it. Nothing like fucking up your job and your marriage.

 
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