Do you think I am overreacting about the stripper pole?

I started seeing this guy, and we hit it off, and we started seeing each other every day. Then I mentioned that I used to be a stripper 15 years ago but had ignored that part of my life that I loved back then I made good money I was very confinement he asked me to dance for him I hadn't done it in 15 years It was difficult, but he told me not to worry because I would get it back if I practiced every night. He gave me my confidence back by pumpimg me up and making me feel good about being a stripper again. Everything came back to me, and I was relieved that he didn't make me feel bad about being a stripper. So I thought, why don't I buy a stripper pole to see the real dance I was ecstatic when I bought it because it made me feel so good.
When I finally got it, I placed the pole in one of his empty bedroom. So we put the pole in that room, and I would go over and practice on it while he watched. It was a great time. But then one night, his roommate had a big party with a lot of girls, and when they arrived, they noticed a stripper pole in the room and were dancing on it. I was fine with it until they shut the door to the room and I couldn't get back in. I got angry Then my man became angry at me the next day, I dismantled the pole and took it home. He was irritated because he couldn't understand why I was making such a big deal about other girls dancing on my pole. That pole was intended for me and him to play on. Now his roommate is buying one becuse I took mine down. That hurts me that they did that. I brought the pole into his life for me and him. Now he saying I can't say shit about is roommates new pole. He says I am overreacting.