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I fall for a trap yesterday! 馃槵

A friend coworker invited me to go with him to some sort of holiday party in church and in an attempt to break out of my introverted zone, I accepted.

But as soon as I arrived every body started doing their recruitment business, asking shit like:

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- Are you new here? I鈥檝e never seen you before!
- For how long have you been in this city? How come you鈥檙e Christian and never been here!
- Why you don鈥檛 visit us regularly?
- We wanna see you every week!
[/quote]

And the priests started treating me as if they found an abandoned poor lost orphan and one of them started his unsolicited hugs and shit which makes me so uncomfortable, and what made it even worse is how he asked for my mobile number as well as many other people so they can pretend like we鈥檙e family and shit and keep nagging me to go to church and hang out with them and ask about me when I鈥檓 absent (which is pretty much most of the year)

I don鈥檛 wanna be mean and block everyone 馃槵 but why they gotta be so clingy 馃槴

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NickiHijabF
I wish people were this excited whenever I've stepped foot in a church because they usually just look scared lmao
SW-User
@NickiHijab They should be

But if you want the real answer, it doesn鈥檛 happen in every church, it鈥檚 mainly because the total number of members in this church are not many, and all of them are expats. So that鈥檚 why (not like I justify how clingy they were 馃槵)
cherokeepatti61-69, F
@NickiHijab haha you look so scary
NickiHijabF
@SW-User why should they?
NickiHijabF
@cherokeepatti thank you馃槍
SW-User
@NickiHijab Because you鈥檙e so cool