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If you sat by someone's hospice bedside....

Did you talk about an afterlife, Heaven or where they're going?

I have not brought it up even though my dad is religious. Anytime we have brought up the cancer that's afflicting him he's gotten irritated. But, I want to say somehow to him while he's alive that he'll always be here . That he's not truly leaving. But I don't want to cause anxiety either.

I've talked memories, his positive times, and that we love him, so he's had calming moments . But I'm not sure if it's ok to bring up how he'll not be fully going , to us. I did say we will always be with each other, the other day. Perhaps I can say that again..?
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PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
My grandma fought her death from cancer even to the point of taking no pain meds. The doctor was amazed at her pain tolerance. She finally passed only after my grandpa told her it was ok to go. Within minutes she took her last breath and passed peacefully. Everyone is different so maybe he knows it's inevitable and just needs to know everything will be fine when it's time.