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If you sat by someone's hospice bedside....

Did you talk about an afterlife, Heaven or where they're going?

I have not brought it up even though my dad is religious. Anytime we have brought up the cancer that's afflicting him he's gotten irritated. But, I want to say somehow to him while he's alive that he'll always be here . That he's not truly leaving. But I don't want to cause anxiety either.

I've talked memories, his positive times, and that we love him, so he's had calming moments . But I'm not sure if it's ok to bring up how he'll not be fully going , to us. I did say we will always be with each other, the other day. Perhaps I can say that again..?
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FreddieUK · 70-79, M
It sounds like your loving concern for him is guiding you wisely. If he has a faith he won't need it to be reinforced by you - he already has his assurance. He will love to hear of how you will carry him with you forever, no matter how many different ways you say it. He perhaps wants to enjoy this time as much as he can and let the future take care of itself. Just a thought.

So sorry for your pain at this time.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@FreddieUK That makes sense yes. Thank you🌟