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Ducky · 31-35, F
I do when it’s something that is positively not agreed upon in a relationship. But if it’s an open relationship or marriage, so long as everyone involved is fine with it and no rules are being broken.
@Ducky I actually really respect you for asking me why I think this instead of immediately freaking out on me. I appreciate that more than you know.
I mostly oppose it because of what it does to children and people in the long run. It's one of the most destablizing enterprises society could adopt. I think that not everyone fits into the traditional family model, and that's fine. Some people are homosexual, for example. But anyone who HAS to have more than one partner is silly. I'll find my thesis on why I oppose polyamory later and send it to you if you'd like. It's just late, and it's hard to make an argument that would be thorough in 3 minutes.
I mostly oppose it because of what it does to children and people in the long run. It's one of the most destablizing enterprises society could adopt. I think that not everyone fits into the traditional family model, and that's fine. Some people are homosexual, for example. But anyone who HAS to have more than one partner is silly. I'll find my thesis on why I oppose polyamory later and send it to you if you'd like. It's just late, and it's hard to make an argument that would be thorough in 3 minutes.
Ducky · 31-35, F
@BRUUH I’ve read up on conflicting information on polyamory being innately harmful to children, with those growing up in polyamorous households not being affected in any negative way while others claim it affects those in a myriad of bad ways. Doesn’t seem there’s any set answer and depends on the individual rather than in general, but that’s just my observation. As for polyamorous relationships where there are no children involved, there’s no need to elaborate on why you don’t care for it. If you simply don’t agree with it, then you simply don’t. I can respect that.